In a relationship, it is vital to maintain good communication with your significant other. Especially when you can't be with your boyfriend all the time, sending love and care through messages can effectively bring you closer and deepen your emotional connection. Here are some practical ways to send messages to help you better interact with your boyfriend.
In This Guide
- Daily recollection style: evoking common good
- Sincere praise style: affirm each other's charm
- Deep confession style: pour out your inner thoughts
- Fun interactive: add fun to get along with
- Date-planning style: looking ahead to future times
- Thinking about holding on style: caring across distance
- Reminiscing style: reliving sweet moments
- Morning greeting style: start the day off right
- Sincere gratitude style: conveying heartfelt gratitude
- Clever ambiguous style: enjoy intimate moments
- Warm good night style: accompany you to sleep peacefully
Daily recollection style: evoking common good
Seeing a painting, reading a book, or passing by a place you once visited together, all these moments in life may make you involuntarily think of your boyfriend. At this time, you may want to send him a text message to share this miss.
For example, you can say, “I just heard our favorite song on the radio! The familiar melody instantly took me back to the times we listened to the song together, reminding me of you and filling my heart with warmth.” Or “I just passed by the restaurant we went to last week, and all those wonderful memories came flooding back, I really miss you.”
Not only that, but if you see a painting that touches you, you can also attach a photo and send it to your boyfriend with the heartwarming words, “This painting reminds me of you. Look at these beautiful colors, just like those colorful moments when we were together.”
This way can let your boyfriend feel your deep thoughts about him, and even a simple message can add a tenderness in each other's heart.
Sincere praise style: affirm each other's charm
Everyone likes to hear praise from others, and boyfriends are no exception. Expressing your appreciation to him at the right time will make him feel extra happy and make him cherish your relationship more.
You can tell him, “You always know how to make me laugh. Your humor is like the spice of life that makes ordinary days incredibly fun.” Or “You looked so cute yesterday! I love your new haircut that emphasizes your personality and charm.”
In addition to external compliments, internal validation is equally important: “Thank you for cheering me up. You are a great boyfriend, always giving me support and encouragement when I need it most.”
Sincere compliments can make your boyfriend feel your love and make him more confident to show his own merits.
Deep confession style: pour out your inner thoughts
When your boyfriend's figure comes to your mind, don't hold back this emotion, boldly tell him that you have been thinking about him.
You can humorously express, “Can you stop running around in my head constantly? I am trying to concentrate! But all I can think about is you.” Or say with deep emotion, “I can't stop thinking about you and your adorable look. Every time I think of you, my heart becomes soft.”
Or even when you suddenly think of him one morning, you can sweetly send, “I suddenly thought of you this morning! I love you and my heart is full of you in this new day.”
This direct confession can make your boyfriend deeply feel that you care about him and miss him, thus further deepening the emotional bond between you.
Fun interactive: add fun to get along with
When sending messages to your boyfriend, adding some interesting word games can make your communication more relaxed and enjoyable. Especially when he is busy at work or you are in a different place, such interaction can make the corners of his mouth rise.
For example, you could send, “You're like bacon. You make everything better.” Or, “Forget the butterflies. When I'm with you, I feel like the whole zoo is around me!” And “The time we spend together is like a hot dog. I enjoy it.”
These humorous and witty remarks can dispel life's troubles and make your relationship stronger.
Date-planning style: looking ahead to future times
Planning some special dates and telling him about them ahead of time via text message can get you both looking forward to future get-togethers.
“Do you have any plans for Friday? I'm thinking of buying us movie tickets that night and cozying up on the couch for a cozy evening together.” Or “Pack your bags! I just rented a room on the beach for next weekend. We can go watch the sunrise together and feel the tenderness of the ocean.”
You can also say, “Are you free this weekend? I thought we could go play mini golf and relive those happy times.”
The date doesn't need to be so luxurious, what matters is your common expectation and good memories. Through such messages, your relationship will also gradually heat up in this vision of the future.
Thinking about holding on style: caring across distance
If you haven't seen each other for a while, a timely text message to your boyfriend to express how much you miss him can make him feel your attachment.
“I can't wait to see you again. I miss you so much! I wonder how have you been doing? Have you been taking good care of yourself?” Or “Miss you, baby. I hope to see you tonight. My heart is overwhelmed at the thought of seeing you again.”
Or when the person is on vacation, you can send, “Miss you so much. Hope you are having fun on your vacation! Take care of yourself and I have lots of fun things I want to share with you when you get back.”
This kind of sincere concern and thoughts can keep your relationship from fading even if you are in different places.
Reminiscing style: reliving sweet moments
Reminiscing about the good times you had on your last date can help you better recall the good things about each other and enhance your relationship.
“I had a great time last night, thank you for taking me out! Your company made the night unforgettable.” Or “Did you have as much fun as I did yesterday? I'm still reminiscing about that great meal we had together.”
You can also say, “Dinner last night was fantastic! You had great taste in restaurant choices. Next time we can try more great food.”
By sharing these memories, you can appreciate your time together even more and plant more sweet seeds for the future together.
Morning greeting style: start the day off right
Sending a cozy good morning message to your boyfriend can help him be surrounded by love early in the morning and start the day with full of positive energy.
“Good morning baby! I hope your day is as wonderful as you are. Have you eaten your breakfast yet? Take care of your nutrition.” Or “Good morning! Woke up thinking of you. I can't wait to see you and wish you all the best in this new day.”
And simply: “Good morning, dear! May you have a great day!”
A simple greeting can convey your deep concern for him and fill his heart with warmth.
Sincere gratitude style: conveying heartfelt gratitude
In a relationship, learning to express gratitude can let your boyfriend know that all his efforts are seen and remembered by you.
“Thank you for listening to me vent before. You made me feel so much better. Thank you for always listening and being supportive.” Or “I love coming home to a bouquet of flowers. You are the best and always surprise me.”
You could also say, “You've been a great support to me and that gives me a lot of confidence. Thank you! I have become braver because of you.”
Sincere thanks can make your boyfriend feel his value and will make him more willing to pay for you.
Clever ambiguous style: enjoy intimate moments
If you and your boyfriend have a stable relationship and both of you feel comfortable with it, try sending some ambiguous text messages to add fun to the relationship.
For example, “What are you wearing now?” Or “Want to see what I'm wearing tonight? Give you a little something to look forward to and guess.”
This kind of slightly ambiguous message can create a romantic atmosphere and make your relationship stronger.
Warm good night style: accompany you to sleep peacefully
Sending your boyfriend a good night message before going to bed to let him know that you have a place for him in your heart can help him have a better sleep.
“Goodnight baby! Can't wait to see you tomorrow. Hope you have beautiful dreams with me in them.” Or “Sweet dreams! I love you. May you sleep soundly tonight and be full of energy tomorrow.”
Or maybe humorously, “Good night, sleep well, don't let the bed bugs bite!”
Warm good night text messages can help you fall asleep with love and care and build up energy for the new day.
In short, keeping good communication with boyfriend needs our heart to manage. Through diversified ways of expressing information, we can make our relationship heat up and become deeper in the daily bits and pieces.