Question: The first time I like a girl, I feel that I can give everything for her, she knows that I like her very much, and also knows my thoughts. She is looking for a job in Shanghai, and I am still at school. Last week, I even went to Shanghai to accompany her for a week. We have been in good contact.
I don't know why she doesn't want to or reply to me no matter what topic I talk to her about recently. Obviously, the time I contact her is outside of work hours. Last night, I told her that I wanted to tell her something very important, but she insisted on my qq. Wechat typing, do not answer my phone, the tone is "something to say", gave her a lot of phone calls were rejected, I asked her why, and then is the figure, what should I do? Is there any help?
What if you chase a girl too hard
Answer: Although it is said that chasing girls must be thick skin, but this definitely does not mean that you have to be tough on the hard on the brute!
There are two very important abilities in love. One is the ability to restrain one's desires. The two are the ability to understand the needs of others without offending them! This is complementary and complementary role, if the desire is too strong, when there is no response, in order to vent our desire, at the wrong time, when there is no entry point, we can not restrain ourselves have to be strong on the hard on the pretty... You can't appreciate the needs of others... In short, the first course of love should be to learn to restrain their own desires, followed by learning to understand the needs of others, only in this way, you can do I like you, nothing to do with you! I chase you, just I chase you, you don't need to have too much pressure. How can you restrain your desire? Please refer to my previous answer. How to realize the needs of others, I will write down a few points:
Ability to understand the needs of others:
There are a lot of boys in the pursuit of girls in the process, only know how to vent their desires, in the case of the other party to their own completely unfeeling, in public wreath confession, kneel in public, every night at 10 o 'clock on time harassment...... Although it is said that girls do not hate the pursuit of boys, but if the pursuit makes her feel embarrassed in front of everyone and does not know how to end, it is a different matter. A lot of boys are like this, very silly very naive...... More love problems, search Xiaoyu love
Due to the inremarkable conditions, so the first few chats and invitations were rejected is an inevitable, do a protracted war and up to three months of psychological preparation, don't lose heart, anyway, once not twice, twice not many times. Remember: Rejection is the norm, not being rejected is not normal!
So when you get snubbed and rejected don't be rude, don't be offensive, and the key to not being offensive is:
1, today chat she is indifferent to you, do not continue to talk, after a few three or five days to tease her;
2, invite today, she refused you, don't ask about tomorrow, have to ask about another week or two;
3, can express the good feelings and admiration of friends, but do not say what to do their girlfriend and so on, not to confess in public, because it is a kind of palace;
4, usually can send some small gifts, but do not send too expensive.