And as a guy, you should be prepared to put in more effort in the relationship.
Today, let's explore how to have a relationship with a girl that lasts - one that doesn't end in breakup.
In This Guide
Learn to Compliment Your Girl - Make Her Feel Like Your Princess
❌ What NOT to say: When she asks "Honey, do I look fat?"
• "You're not fat, just a bit plump" ✕
• "Your figure is just standard" ✕
✅ What WORKS: "Honey, if you think this is fat, I really don't know what thin looks like!"
Golden Rule: Girls can joke about themselves, but you should NEVER join in!
If you can't master compliments, at least learn to make her laugh with self-deprecating humor!
Listen to Her Heart - Always Support Her
❌ What NOT to do: When she shares her troubles
• "Mm-hmm" ✕
• "Oh" ✕
• "It's okay, you still have me" ✓
Key Insight: When your girl complains about her problems, NEVER be dismissive or critical!
Your role is to comfort her, encourage her, and support her!
Give Her Practical Advice - Be Her Rock
Important Principle: Don't keep asking her "Do you want?", "Do you think?", "Is it okay?"
For girls: A boyfriend with strong "boyfriend power"
should be decisive, have good judgment, and take action!
Most importantly - Be There for Her (Presence & Care)
❌ What NOT to say: When she says "I have cramps"
• "Drink more hot water" ✕
• "Maybe you should lie down?" ✕
• "I'm downstairs with painkillers, open the door" ✓
When she's sick or upset: You should be there with her, doing whatever she needs.
If you're in a long-distance relationship, remind her to take her medicine, check on her constantly, and give her the care she needs.
DON'T Argue About Everything!
Important: Your girlfriend is not there for you to debate with!
Don't try to lecture her with your "great logic."
Remember: If you ever find yourself "winning" an argument with your girlfriend,
Congratulations! You've just earned your "single" status back!
Show Her Through Actions - Not Just Words
Truth: Don't think sweet words alone can win a girl's heart.
Often, girls just don't want to call you out on it.
Remember: Empty promises are easy to see through.
Action speaks louder than words!
Want a relationship that doesn't end after graduation?
Action always beats just talking!
If your girl can feel your sincerity,
then you can break the breakup curse:
then actions will always be more effective than just words.
If she can feel your genuine care,
then you can break the breakup spell."
There's a great line from a movie that says:
"Who says you have to break up after graduation? It's just that some things have to be paid for in installments."
The best relationships are built on mutual understanding, respect, and consistent effort from both sides.
Final Thought: The key to a lasting relationship isn't finding the perfect formula, but showing up consistently with sincerity, respect, and genuine care. When both partners are committed to growing together and supporting each other, that's when relationships truly last.