In the world of feelings, a woman's mind is often inscrutable, as if it were a fog that confuses people. Some people say that a woman's mind is more difficult than solving high math equations, and more puzzling than catching Elf Pokémon. So, exactly how to determine a woman is truly love you, or just pretending to love you? Today, I will share with you some practical methods.
In This Guide
With the help of cell phone information to judge
Cell phone, has become an indispensable part of our lives, and it can also become our understanding of the woman's heart “detector”.
First of all, you can use a simple and direct way to send her a message, such as: “Today's weather is particularly cool, do you want to go out to see the scenery?” If she replies: “Yes, I also want to go out for a walk!” Then the probability is that she truly loves you. Because it shows that she is interested in your proposal and is willing to spend quality time with you.
On the contrary, if she replies something like “The weather is nice, but I have some things to do, next time,” but doesn't say what exactly, then maybe she's just pretending to be in love with you. However, this is just a simple example, different women may have different ways of replying, you can try a few more times, comprehensive her reply to judge.
Another “risky” way is to take an ugly picture of yourself and ask her, “Do I look good in this picture?” If she answered good-looking or handsome or something like that, then you can basically be sure that she is truly in love with you, because she cares about your feelings, and does not care about whether you look good or not at the moment. But if she said not good-looking, ugly, did not shoot well, etc., then maybe her love for you is questionable.
Observe details from chat conversations
In addition to sending specific messages, by chatting conversations with her, we can also pay attention to her reply speed and emotional response. If she always replies quickly and shows care and interest, it is likely that she truly loves you. For example, if she replies quickly after you send a message and asks you questions about your life or expresses her concern for you, that means she cares about you.
On the contrary, if she always delays in replying or replies in a cold manner, then she might just be pretending to love you. Also, you can observe how much she pays attention to your updates. A woman who truly loves you will usually take the initiative to follow your social media accounts and show interest and encouragement in your dynamics; while a woman who is just pretending to love you may be indifferent to your dynamics or just perfunctorily nod a like.
By sharing private feelings to judge
Whether a woman is willing to share her private feelings with you is also an important indicator of whether she truly loves you. A woman who truly loves you will trust you and confide in you her joys and sorrows; a woman who is only pretending to love you will keep a certain distance and protect her heart.
Through the actual action to observe
In addition to observing her behavior through the phone, you can also try more in-depth communication to understand her mind. Invite her to some important events or express your emotions to her at special moments and observe her reactions. Women who really love you will actively participate and respond; and just pretend to love you in the woman may reveal indifference or not too sincere attitude.
Specific Messages Trial Method
Common greetings, and her interaction
Start with a simple greeting like “Good morning, how is your day going?” If she replies in detail and takes the initiative to share some of her daily routines, it's a positive sign that she's willing to interact with you and has a certain fondness for you.
Slightly more in-depth inquiries that show you care about her
When you've been dating the woman of your choice for a while, you can send a slightly more in-depth message, such as “You've been looking a little tired lately, are you under too much pressure at work?” If she's willing to share her worries and preoccupations with you, it means she has a special trust and reliance on you, and is basically developing feelings for you.
Invitation to a date to see if she accepts
Send her date invitations to see if she accepts you. For example, “There's a nice exhibition this weekend, would you be interested in going to see it together?” If she readily accepted, that means she is happy to further develop a relationship with you, is a good feeling about your performance.
Sincerity is the key
To summarize, through these methods, men can more accurately determine whether a woman has a good feeling about you. But men in the pursuit of love, the most important thing is still sincerity and understanding. Try to understand her feelings, to experience her emotions, so that even if you do not use any “skills”, you can feel the sincere emotions between each other.
Love, only through sincere communication and understanding, in order to find the bridge to each other's hearts. Therefore, when a woman like you, she will be happy to accept your invitation to date, and actively participate in it; and when you use some methods to test out the woman's mind, but also to show more sincere, so as to harvest the real love.