Marriage is never the guarantee of love, there are too many people, say love, but turn their heads to the arms of others.
In the siege of marriage, some people are always looking for some fresh and exciting feelings, even if it is only a small ambiguity, it is enough to make people's heart beat faster.
For married women, some small actions may seem unintentional, but they are intentional, which is that they are acquiescing to a further relationship.
If you read these signals and respond to them, then your relationship may cross boundaries without even realizing it.
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Make flirty jokes
Jokes are often a test for emotional communication.
If a married woman often makes some ambiguous jokes with you, it is likely that she is testing your reaction.
These kinds of jokes are different from everyday banter in that they are often overtly sexually suggestive or emotionally provocative.
For example, she might tease you in a soft tone: "I wish you were mine." Or mention some intimate joke that only the two of you can understand in the right place.
Behind these jokes, she hides her true thoughts and desires. She may be seeking an emotional outlet, or it may be a rebellion against the bland nature of her married life.
But either way, it's a red flag. If you have feelings for her and return the jokes, then your relationship is likely to warm up quickly, even beyond that invisible line.
If you choose to walk through this door, then the relationship between you is no longer a simple friendship.
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Use your personal belongings
Personal items, often with a strong personal color and emotional connection.
When a married woman starts using your personal things frequently, such as borrowing your phone, laptop, or even your clothes, it's not just a material sharing, it's an emotional closeness.
She might pick up your phone and flip through it without you being there, or use your laptop without your knowledge.
These actions may seem unintentional, but they're actually her attempts to connect with you on a deeper level. She may be in this way, to feel your breath, learn about your life, and then close the distance with you.
Behind this behavior, she hides her expectations and fantasies about your relationship. She may hope that in this way, you will notice her presence and feel her heart.
If you acquiesce to her behavior, or even offer to share your personal belongings with her, then the relationship between you is likely to take a step further.
When a married woman starts using your personal belongings, she may already be communicating her feelings to you through her actions.
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Intimate touch
Physical contact is the most direct and primitive way of emotional communication.
When a married woman starts to touch you frequently with ambiguous intimacy, such as gently tapping your shoulder, arm, or holding your hand at the right time, it is likely that she is trying to close the physical distance with you, and therefore close the psychological distance.
These touches may seem unintentional, but they are actually her body language communicating her feelings and wishes to you.
She may be trying to gauge your reaction to see if you feel the same way about her.
If you don't say no to her touch, or even take the initiative to respond, then the relationship between you is likely to warm up quickly.
When a married woman begins to engage in a flirtatious intimate touch with you, she may have unwittingly paved a path for you to enter her heart.
In the siege of marriage, some people will look for novelty, some people will look for excitement, and some people will look for the real self.
When a married woman makes these three little gestures to you, she may be trying to find a new emotional experience, or she may be trying to break free from the shackles of marriage.
But either way, it's a red flag. If you are interested in her and reciprocate, your relationship may quickly cross boundaries into new and uncharted territory.
So, when you find that a married woman has the above three little moves on you, be sure to keep a clear head and rational judgment.
Don't be easily swayed by emotional impulses, let alone destroy other people's marriages and families.
Because marriage is not only a legal relationship, but also a moral and responsibility.
Stick to your principles and bottom lines, and don't touch things that shouldn't be touched.
Only in this way can we keep our hearts pure and kind and move towards a better future.