Dating a girl does require a lot of attention to detail, and the mastery of these details not only shows your personal qualities, but also enhances the girl's favorability to you. The following is a further explanation and supplement to the dating notes you mentioned:
In This Guide
dress up
Neat and clean: this is the most basic, make sure the clothes are neat, no stains, hair neat, fresh breath.
Appropriate for the occasion: Choose the appropriate dress code according to the occasion of the date, don't be too casual or too formal. For example, if it's an outdoor picnic, casual is fine; if it's an upscale restaurant, it needs to be a little more formal.
Personalization: Show your own personality and taste, but avoid overly exaggerated or out of fashion dress.
dating location
Initial stage: choose a place that is quiet, comfortable and easy to talk to, such as a cafe or park.
Mid-term: choose places with common experiences, such as playgrounds, movie theaters, etc., to increase mutual interaction and common memories.
Later: you can choose a more private, romantic place, such as a private theater, home, etc., but make sure the girl feels comfortable and safe.
punctuality
Arrive on time: this is a sign of respect for the girls and a reflection of your personal qualities. If you are late for a special reason, be sure to inform and sincerely apologize in advance.
Concentration
Be fully engaged: focus on the other person on the date and avoid distractions or frequent checking of cell phones. Show your attention by making eye contact, listening and giving feedback.
take care of the girl's feelings
Observe carefully: Pay attention to the girl's expressions and movements and respond to her needs in a timely manner. For example, if a girl shows fatigue, offer to take a break or change to a more comfortable place.
Respect for choice: Respect the girl's opinions and choices in ordering meals and activities.
Chatting Topics
Avoid sensitive topics: such as politics, religion, exes, etc., these topics are easy to provoke controversy and disagreement.Relaxed and happy: choose relaxed, interesting topics, such as hobbies, travel experience, food and so on.
Listening is the main thing: listen to what the girls share, give positive feedback and response.
avoid hands and feet
Respect the boundaries: In the early stages of dating, avoid too intimate physical contact. If the girl shows discomfort or resistance, it should be stopped immediately.
pay attention to details
Gentlemanly manner: such as helping girls open the door, pulling the chair, handing tissues and other small actions can show your
gentlemanly manner：Courtesy to others: the waiter, passers-by, etc. to maintain politeness and respect.
understand the girl's preferences
Prepare in advance: before the date to understand the girl's preferences and interests, in order to find common topics in the chat.
Flexibility: According to the girl's reaction and interest, flexible adjustment of chat topics and activity arrangements.
Summarize
Dating is a chance to get to know each other better, and it is also a stage to show your personal qualities and charms. Boys should pay attention to details when dating, maintain politeness and respect, pay attention to the girl's feelings and needs, and at the same time show their own personality and taste. Through good communication and interaction, enhance mutual understanding and feelings.