Hey guys, have you ever gotten a confusing “not a good fit” message after a date, or felt like the woman was being standoffish? The truth is, women are subtle, but they can send messages through subtle details on a date. Below are ten dating details that men tend to overlook, and the real meaning behind what these women may want to express.
In This Guide
- First, talk about future plans: she is testing your sense of responsibility
- Second, pay attention to your dress: she wants you to pay more attention to image
- Third, share a little secret: she has developed trust in you
- Fourth, proposed AA: her pursuit of independence and equality
- Fifth, interested in your friends and family: she considers to integrate into your circle of life
- Six, support your hobbies: she is willing to change for you
- Seven, observe your words and behavior: she measures your character
- Eight, willing to change the plan: she knows how to adapt and tolerance
- Nine, sensitive to your body language: she is invested in feelings
- Ten, willing to pay time for you: she treasures you
First, talk about future plans: she is testing your sense of responsibility
When a woman takes the initiative to talk about future plans, such as career development, travel dreams or home buying plans, she may be assessing whether you have a sense of responsibility and planning ability, and whether you want to be part of her future. At this time, may wish to sincerely share your views and plans to show your reliability and forward-looking.
Second, pay attention to your dress: she wants you to pay more attention to image
Women will observe and comment on the way men dress. If she comments on your clothes, shoes or hairstyle, it usually means she cares about your image and wants you to look your best in front of her. She may expect to feel proud and honored when she appears with you in social situations.
Trust is the key to building a relationship. If a woman is willing to share her little secrets on a date, whether it's a childhood anecdote or a frustration at work, it shows that she has developed a sense of trust in you. At this point, you need to listen patiently and give appropriate comfort and encouragement so that she can feel your warmth and support.
Fourth, proposed AA: her pursuit of independence and equality
When a woman takes the initiative to propose AA, she may be emphasizing the importance of independence and equality. In her opinion, love should not be based on the exchange of money, but rather the fit of the heart. Respect her choice, while occasionally taking the initiative to pay the bill, show your gentlemanly demeanor, let her feel your thoughtfulness and respect.
Fifth, interested in your friends and family: she considers to integrate into your circle of life
If a woman shows a keen interest in your friends and family, often asking about their recent developments, and even proposing to meet them, this usually means that she has been considering integrating into your circle of life. To her, love is the blending of two families. Appropriate sharing of interesting stories about family and friends, so that she can feel your family atmosphere and affectionate warmth.
Six, support your hobbies: she is willing to change for you
Women who show support and understanding for your hobbies and are even willing to try to participate, it shows that she is willing to change herself for you and integrate into your life. Invite her to participate in your interests together, such as watching ball games, concerts, etc., so that she can feel your enthusiasm and vigor.
Seven, observe your words and behavior: she measures your character
In dating, women will silently observe your words and behavior, such as whether to respect others, whether to pay attention to personal hygiene and so on. These seemingly insignificant details, in her view is an important standard to measure your character and quality. Keep polite and humble, let her feel your gentlemanly demeanor.
Eight, willing to change the plan: she knows how to adapt and tolerance
When the dating plan for some reason need to change, if the woman did not show dissatisfaction or complaints, but actively put forward new suggestions or programs, this shows that she is a person who knows how to adapt and tolerance. Thank her for her understanding and support and discuss new dating plans together to create wonderful memories.
Nine, sensitive to your body language: she is invested in feelings
Body language often expresses a person's true thoughts better than words. If a woman is sensitive to your body language, such as paying attention to your eye contact, body contact, etc., it shows that she is emotionally invested in you. Maintain a confident and sincere body language so that she can feel your charm and sincerity.
Ten, willing to pay time for you: she treasures you
Time is the most valuable treasure. If a woman is willing to pay time for you, whether it is to accompany you to chat, watch movies or shopping, it shows that she sees in you the value worth investing. Cherish her dedication and companionship, give her the same care and love, and work together to run and maintain your love.
In short, the details in dating can often reveal a woman's true thoughts and feelings. As a man, you should learn to observe and listen, discover her needs and hints from the details, and give positive responses and actions. Only in this way can you understand and cherish her better and create a bright future together.